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Boost your Mood, without leaving your couch!

5/17/2017

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It sounds like a joke, doesn’t it? You rarely hear the words ‘mood boosting’ and ‘sofa’ together, but after a long hard day, too many of us collapse onto our sofas, exhausted or in a bad mood from whatever stresses our busy day has handed us.
If you’re like me, once you’re down, the chances of you getting up are slim. So let’s take a look at some easy and quick things we can do to revive ourselves.
  1. Put on some upbeat music. Nothing lifts a bad mood as fast as hearing Pharrell’s ‘Happy” blasting through your speakers. Whatever kind of music that lifts you up will do!
  2. Get in touch with your inner flexible child and try out some couch friendly yoga like a good arm stretch. Moving your body is proven to improve your mood.
  3. Laugh and smile. It sounds cliché, but a good chuckle can really lift your spirits. Find your funny bone and expose it to as many YouTube videos about cats, babies, cats and babies, babies with cats and dogs and anything else that will leave you clutching your sides and gasping for air. Try this one: Baby Gives the Evil Eye
  4. Let it out. Sometimes it’s as simple as recapping your frustrations to a loved one. Talk it out and then, let it go! Or, write it down in your private diary.  Once it's out there, you don't have to hold onto it anymore. (And you can look back at what used to drag you down and see how insignificant it is now.)
  5. Open up your curtains and windows, let the sun in and count your blessings. Often we are focused on the negatives in our lives. Retrain your mind to look for the positives and contemplate about all the things in your life that you are blessed with.
So just remember the next time you’re slumped on your sofa, cursing the TV for flooding your screen with reality shows; there are so many other options that you can choose from that will leave you feeling great!
Don't forget the power of touch. We all innately need touch to thrive.  Hopefully you can take a few minutes to sit down next to a loved one and just hold hands, lean on each other, and be close.  The power of connection can help to heal everything within.
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Change is Hard

5/9/2017

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We always talk about how we are going to change for the better, and for some of us, that is enough to make it happen.  For the rest of us, we need a little bit better of a plan. That is our first fault in the change.  We don't plan.  We say we are going to eat healthier, and then we get the same food at the grocery store, or even worse, we clear out all of our old food and go buy all the fresh veggies and fruits and then order pizza because we are hungry. We say we are going to save money but then we keep the same old habits and our savings account doesn't change. Or we are going to work out, get healthy and look great in that bikini come summer. And we go to the gym once, get intimidated and don't go back.  Have any of you been there, cause I've done all of these and then some.
We need a plan! And to not make it too much of a challenge.  And to accept that sometimes we will suffer setbacks. The general rule out there is it takes 30, maybe 66, but who knows how many days to make a new habit stick.  We are all individuals, if it doesn't stick for you in the first bit, maybe it takes a little longer, or maybe you need to evaluate your goal and how you PLAN to achieve it. And don't overwhelm yourself by taking on too much too soon. We all plan on January 1st to lose 20 pounds, become vegan (ok, maybe not that one), and save $100 a week. And by January 7th, we realize that life sucks as a skinny broke vegan, so we stop.  But maybe if we only set one goal on January 1st, we would get there. And maybe set the alarm on your phone to remind you on February 1st to start working on the next one. 
Sure fire ways to fail are to be too vague in our goal.  "I want to eat healthier" is a lot less encompassing than "I will only eat fruit and a single piece of dark chocolate for my snack". Then sneak in a little, "trade out white bread for wheat bread in my sandwich" for an added bonus. Now you have a specific, easily achievable and maintainable goal.  Also, it is okay and encouraged to share your goals, to let the people around you know that you don't want donuts at the shop and lunch at that great buffet is really just too tempting. If they really are your friend, they will accommodate you and your goals.
As for saving money, that's easy.  Most of us get some small (sometimes large) wage increase each year.  You already live off of the old money you made, so why up your lifestyle to just spend more money if you have it. Save that money.  If you don't have a raise coming to you, and you want to save, set up your plan. Open a savings account and put money in it. Don't keep your debit card in your wallet to get that money out.  With direct deposit you can send money to multiple accounts easily, or you can set up an automatic transfer of cash from your other account. Don't view this as money available to you.  Its not.  It is your savings. A little bit quickly adds up to a lot more. And don't look at it every day, it will tempt you and taunt you.  Look at it every 6 months and see how much it has grown. That should inspire you to let it keep growing.  What are you going to save for? A down payment on a house? A new car? A vacation? Give yourself a reason to save.
If the gym is your nemesis, as it is mine, find an activity you are interested in and pursue that. If you want to lift weights, but don't know how, maybe work with a trainer for a bit.  Sure, you may have to pay, but actually learning how to use the weights is going to be way more beneficial to you in the long run for your safety and health and confidence.  Or sign up for a class.  And if it is something that is on-going, and perhaps takes an automatic payment to keep it going, you will be inspired like me to not skip. I hate wasting money! I signed up for boxing classes once, and even if I was so tired, I made sure I made it to class because I had paid for that and I was not throwing my money away. Don't forget that nature is a great place to workout too.  Go for a hike.  Go adopt a high energy dog and then you have a great friend and a reason to get up and go take a walk or run to save your sanity from the crazy dog. And he'll probably love to go for a hike too! If you have been a couch potato, don't despair that after your first training session you are sore and tired. It means you are doing something for your health. Take a day to recover, take a slow day of reworking your muscles and get back out there.
Finally, reward yourself! Achieve your goal for a certain number of days, pounds lost, money saved, whatever the goal is, set yourself a reward! It is ok to indulge yourself and feel like the champion you are. You have earned it. By the way, massage is a great treat for the body and soul!
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How are you Sleeping?

2/10/2017

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I am exhausted lately. I have a night owl toddler that won't sleep without his momma and a natural habit of waking up too early.  The toddler did not get the night owl thing from me, no, that's his Dad.
Did you know that over 60 million Americans have chronic sleep disorders- things like insomnia, narcolepsy or sleep apnea. Is that you? And did you know what that can do to you?
Not getting your required sleep can increase your chances of experiencing chronic anxiety and depression, or having it worsen for you.  Forget much, that can be the result of your brain just being exhausted. Sleep makes our memories worse and just forgetful in general. You have an increased risk of hypertension - high blood pressure- and heart disease risk goes up, all because of lack of sleep.  And when you are tired, you are more apt to turn to comfort foods, taking in unhealthy foods to keep you going, because they taste good and because you forgot to get the healthy stuff at the grocery store. And that can lead to weight gain and an increased risk of diabetes. And have you ever found yourself nodding off while driving. Yup, lack of sleep makes us a lot more likely to get into an accident on the road. Yikes, who knew that sleep was so important?
So, what can we do? First things first, you need to make your needs a priority in your life. You need sleep, so don't not get it just because someone else wants you to make them a priority. (I'm working on getting my toddler to go to bed earlier so I can get to sleep earlier). Sometimes that is as much as it takes, moving up your bedtime. Not a lot, just a little. Also, regarding bed-time, do you know the blue light emitted from our phones and televisions impedes our bodies abilities to produce melatonin- the happy sleepy chemical our body puts out to say night night. So try to turn off the phone and the TV before your bed time- by at least an hour. Exercise to keep your body healthy and to make it tired, but don't exercise too close to your bed-time, you need time to cool off and calm down, probably a couple of hours at least.  It will make your sleep so much more effective if you do exercise. And making up for all your lost sleep of the week during the weekend won't really help you all week.  It is better to get a sleep schedule and stick to it, going to bed at the same time, getting up at the same time, ensuring you get enough sleep every night than trying to bank sleep on the weekend.  It doesn't work.
And, might as well make the plug here, go get a massage! You might take a nap on the table while your therapist is working. Probably means you need a little more shut-eye anyway. Massage helps to reduce the body's stress hormone cortisol and helps promote the happy hormone seratonin, If your body is naturally calmer and happier with less built in stress, you may find yourself sleeping better. And massage feels good.  If you have those chronic aches and pains, maybe a massage can relieve them and then you will sleep better.
Moral of the story, I need a massage and to kick my toddler out of my bed. One of these will happen before the other, I'm sure.
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So...Reflexology!

1/27/2017

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So I decided to take a class on reflexology earlier this month.  It was close to home, not too expensive and is something that has intrigued me for a while. 
Let me tell you, it was not what I expected, but oh so amazing when we came out the other side.  There were 28 of us in the class, I expected under 10. I didn't expect to feel such an awesome relaxation from such a simple massage.  And I was surprised to find out exactly how to perform reflexology, since apparently the little bit that I had been forced to do as part of some protocol massages was performed very wrong-sorry about that, but maybe they should have got me some instruction prior to telling me to do it.  That is all in the past and a very different story.
What is reflexology you may ask?  Well, it is a whole body approach to wellness that is mainly focused on manipulations of the feet, but can include the hands and ears as well. There are reflex points in your feet (hands and ears also) that correspond to different parts of your body and different organs as well.  By manipulating these points, we can bring about a sense of well being and possibly positively affect your whole body. As an example, one of my classmates had been experiencing insomnia for weeks upon starting the class.  She was so tired.  After our first day of class, when we did our first reflexology session, we adjourned and went to our respective places.  The next morning, she reported having gone back to her hotel and sleeping.  Not just a cat nap. But all night long.  She felt amazing. That day, we did another session of reflexology, and again adjourned.  Again, she came back having slept the whole night through.  Maybe it wasn't the reflexology that did it, but I'm not going to argue.  It was awesome.  Lots of people reported having similar uplifting experiences.
So the reflexology style I studied is called Integrative Reflexology. It integrates four different theories to come up with one approach for treating the body.  There are other approaches out there, so one session of reflexology with me may not feel the same as with someone else. And some practitioners will find the reflex points slightly different than others. It is ok.  It is an intuitive treatment, much the same as massage is intuitive. No sessions will be exactly the same, because we as people are not exactly the same. That's what makes this fun.
I was so amazed at the deepest levels of relaxation I achieved during my reflexology sessions.  Especially as I tend to have ticklish feet.  The fact that I could just fall into an almost trance while receiving the treatment, practically asleep and not even notice the touch.  Just the peace.  And good intention.  And I felt the same when I was giving a session. It wasn't an intense concentration to ensure I was on the proper points, because I could find them intuitively.  It is amazing.  
I hope everyone would love to try a session.  You will be amazed!
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Move, move, move!

4/20/2016

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Well, this is embarrassing! I had written up a great blog (I thought) about the harm we are doing to our body's by sitting all day. IT was here, I swear it was. But now it isn't! SO, today 5/3/16, I go back to my original thoughts to share with you.

​The increased risk of death by just sitting for 4 hours a day is huge.  Along with the myriad of other health problems that come along with it. Mayo clinic has some great information on the danger to yourself if you sit for extended periods.  Sitting for less than 2 hours a day improves your life in so many ways.
So you may wonder, especially if you are tied to a computer all day, how am I supposed to not sit for so long.  I will recommend a standing desk.  If you can't get one, make your current one into a standing desk.  Get a crate and move your monitor and keyboard up.  Look up desktop ergonomics to see how you should be looking at your computer to maximize your health. If you just can not get a standing desk, try to stand up as much as possible. Talking on the phone, stand up. Eating lunch. Stand up.  Better yet, move, move, move.  You burn more calories (and who doesn't need to do that) just by standing, now maximize that by getting a move on it.  Park further away, don't troll the parking lot waiting for the front row spot.  Walk. And one of my favorites, get a furry friend.  Not only are they great on your blood pressure, they are great motivators to get out and exercise.  A well exercised Dog will definitely be a happier dog.  And no one is happier to see you at the end of the day than your dog! Soon, your body will start to respond to your increased activity by feeling better and demanding more time.  That horrible pain in your shoulders will diminish and life will be good again.  MOVE, MOVE, MOVE!

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    Connie Trica, LMT, LE

    I developed a passion for massage after a personal injury, and through massage I developed a passion for skin care. My goal here is to provide education on the benefits of receiving quality massage and skincare services in a professional environment.

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